Reader: More than a decade ago, I used to work on the same team as “Brad,” who pursued me romantically. I was initially not interested, but after two years we started dating. Then, after a few weeks, he ghosted me. It was messy and painful, because I was young and very much in love. I sent him two texts calling him a lying jerk, but in harsher terms. Our manager said I was hurting the team dynamic and transferred me to a different office in the same city. I was happy to go. I cringe just thinking about how immature and unprofessional my actions were after the breakup.